Receiving……

Receiving……

How are you at receiving? Do you enjoy it fully, graciously and warmly? Compliments, gifts, offers of help, support and assistance; Anything, that someone gives to you, whether asked for or not? Or does it leave you feeling beholden, uncomfortable ‘put on’ or ungracious? May I ask you a couple of questions…..? Do you love…

Self care and boundaries

Self care and boundaries

Ever watched or listened to yourself whilst knowingly not looking after yourself? Fascinating isn’t it? Watching yourself keep listening (and maybe even agreeing with) someone who is insistent on making everything a problem. ‘The grumbler…..’ How about staying in a room where every fibre in your body wants you to leave……? Or not going to…

Dealing with resentment……..

Dealing with resentment……..

If you want to move your relationship with your man into another realm, one of closeness, connection, respect and honour, there are things you can do.  So many things.  The ‘problem’ is ‘remembering’ them, keeping on doing them (even when you REALLY don’t want to) and celebrating when you remember to do them!! You see…

My own relationship update!

My own relationship update!

An overdue update on mine and Stephens relationship……. We are working through it. Still together and living together with him staying in our home increasingly more…. His mum is less able now (she had a stroke a number of years ago) and unable to live semi independently as she has been doing for a number…